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Old 02-07-2018, 05:06 PM
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They are going off the rails
over there at the Writer's website
about inequality of the sexes

And of course everyone has a valid
(for them) point

I'm thinkin' back to Mesopotamia
time and before
There is a figurine (carbon dated) of a large
(by current Anglo standards) female

Not certain if it is intended
to represent a deity

Wonderin' when/if this "Patriarchal"
planet was once a "Matriarchal"
arrangement

And if so - what happened (that
brought change to the now system)

I suppose gettin' at that would
involve a lot of finger pointing

Perhaps a more useful approach
(as recriminations rage)
would be to do what it takes
to imagine a sexually balanced
world

Hmm, now just how would that
look?

Are humans, no, is there a human
ability to visualize such
society?

If so what are some of
the parameters?

If not then hunker down, pal
Incoming

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There still are matriarchal societies, mostly small tribes of people in remote places. I would love to see a total equality, it would be very interesting, might be scary, might result in chaos, or be a way to a world peace. An interesting idea for a story - a future in which there is total equality. Would it be dystopian?
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I would love to see a total equality

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Do you know any Russians?
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I sound like a communist, don’t I!’?

And no, I don’t know any Russians.
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There still are matriarchal societies, mostly small tribes of people in remote places. I would love to see a total equality, it would be very interesting, might be scary, might result in chaos, or be a way to a world peace. An interesting idea for a story - a future in which there is total equality. Would it be dystopian?


I have a household that is equal(and I bet a lot of other people do too. Maybe you do). I doubt we could create public policy by our example, but it works.

We own a small business. Itís a plumbing company. While there is no formal contract, I am the plumber, and she runs the office, does bookkeeping, answers phones, calls our employees and solves all kinds of problems. Of course, I do some of those things too, but she does more. Itís a cliche, but a lot of problems seem like nails to me, and nails need to be hammered. She usually offers a more nuanced approach, and helps me a lot with customer relations, employee relations, and in being more sensitive to peopleís needs in general. Without her the company would be very different. Iím not saying it wouldnít work, but it would be different.

She does most of the cooking, and house work. Not because thatís a womanís job, but because she is home (we have a home office) most of the day and I am not. And honestly, she likes to do it. She has more day to day interaction with our 14 year old son for the same reason. Sheís home more.

I generally take out the trash (especially at night), clean the yard up, keep the garage clean, wash the cars, carry things that are too heavy for her, kill critters she is afraid of (scorpions, black widows, rattle snakes, rats), and she often jokes that I do the Ďmaní stuff, and she does the Ďwomaní stuff, but we both know itís more than that.

She could easily learn to be a plumber, and I could learn to run the office. Neither are rocket science, but itís convenient because I donít like tedious paperwork, and she doesnít like giant muddy holes or crawling around in hot attics.

Our socialization has no doubt led in some part to our preferences, but a lot of it is just what each of us is best at, what we naturally are inclined to enjoy.

There are plenty of women plumbers, but maybe 1 out a hundred, or maybe thousand. I know of two in the city I live in. They are both excellent plumbers, but if you said to a group of men and women: Iíll give you $50 to jump down in that trench and hook that sewer up, I bet more men would do it than women. For a lot of reasons that have to do with biology. Yeah, thereís socialization, but men and women are different both biologically and psychologically too.

There are always people who break the stereo type. And I donít believe we should discriminate wrt them, but statistically that number is small.

I think equality of opportunity is good, but equality of outcome is bad.






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That’s exactly my point. I understand equality by being able to pursue anything I want without being ridiculed. How you do it is up to you, but you should have the right to try on equal terms without having to deal with extra obstacles and mean comments or worse.
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And no, I donít know any Russians.

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Russians ain't communist anymore.

My point was gonna be how unlikely equal opportunity for females they tend to be.
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Russians ain't communist anymore.
I know, itís just something that came to mind
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I know, itís just something that came to mind
Da, da.
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To be honest it’s not that much different in Poland. People are fighting it but it’s not easy.

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To be honest itís not that much different in Poland. People are fighting it but itís not easy.

https://youtu.be/DNs_nn_qBIQ

If you want to live in peace be able to make war better than anyone else.
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really good. quite ingenious and inspiring, nick. nice title!! where is it from? <-ur inspiration.
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If you want to live in peace be able to make war better than anyone else.
That sound very American to me.
Iíd say that if you want to live in peace - educate.
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really good. quite ingenious and inspiring, nick. nice title!! where is it from? <-ur inspiration.
The title is of my own origination.
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That sound very American to me.
Iíd say that if you want to live in peace - educate.

Yeah, the sentiment is American sounding these days. In other historical eras it would have sounded Mongol or Roman to name two.

The difference between propagandizing and educating is ... well, how would you tell them apart?
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Yeah, the sentiment is American sounding these days. In other historical eras it would have sounded Mongol or Roman to name two.

The difference between propagandizing and educating is ... well, how would you tell them apart?
You can and should question that what you are being told. If it's education it should be explainable in an objective way and if the presented facts are indeed facts they are verifiable.

Propaganda gets mad when you question it, it's subjective, and exists in denial.
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You can and should question that what you are being told. If it's education it should be explainable in an objective way and if the presented facts are indeed facts they are verifiable.

Propaganda gets mad when you question it, it's subjective, and exists in denial.
The skilled propagandaism does not display anger. When stymied in one area by education it simply moves to a less educated area.

This has recently (in our lifetime) been done by tobacco selling companies.
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You can and should question that what you are being told. If it's education it should be explainable in an objective way and if the presented facts are indeed facts they are verifiable.

Propaganda gets mad when you question it, it's subjective, and exists in denial.
Sometimes the anger of propaganda when being confronted with education is quite physical.

Malala Yousafzai is a current example.
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Thatís exactly my point. I understand equality by being able to pursue anything I want without being ridiculed. How you do it is up to you, but you should have the right to try on equal terms without having to deal with extra obstacles and mean comments or worse.


...or worse, yeah, I agree with that part.
Mean comments and ridicule probably canít be avoided though. Iím curious about your idea of extra obstacles.

Ideas are easy, but societal changes and institutions to support them take a long time to become the norm.

Seems like the world (with the exception of a few countries) is moving in a positive direction on all fronts. Itís just hard to view it on a small timescale. Hopefully the radicals on either end of these discussions donít slow progress with stupidity too much. I donít think anyone can stop the push. Itís going there no matter what.

Well, unless somebody starts a nuclear war or something stupid.


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