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Old 08-23-2011, 03:20 PM
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If you lose, she wasn't worth having in the first place.
Excellent bit of rationalization.

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Originally Posted by Mike C View Post
If you lose, she wasn't worth having in the first place.
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I don't think that's fair. If I'm can't tell her how I feel, it doesn't mean she's not worth it, but it might mean I'm not worth it. Hm.
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Itís easy to say what youíd do when youíre looking at it with 20/20 hindsight. Not so easy when youíre 18 or 19 and you donít have the experience that allows you to put things in perspective. And to a degree, being melodramatic comes with the territory. You can say ďgrow upĒ but thatís just it -- someone that age hasnít grown up yet -Ė even the brain is still developing. I was in the same boat when I was that age Ė I didnít know what to do, so I did nothing. I can sympathize, even though Iím not so inclined to indulge in the histrionics.
what he said.

cut the kid some slack, peeps.
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("...well now, the more slack I am asked to cut for you the more I feel that you are right in feeling yourself not ready for these decisions of adulthood here..." mentioned the goblin, adding "...but, as a rule, one doesn't tell someone one's feelings towards them if one then has no intention of acting up those feelings after that, also, one doesn't talk about ex girlfriends either, well out of respect for the relationship that is, where those men that openly brag about their conquests are the ones more discerning women would pass up on I imagine...")

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Just tell her how you feel. You don't know what will happen, and something good could possibly come out of it. And if it backfires, at least you won't have to wonder what would've happened if you did tell her.
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looking through my old posts since i'm such a self centred lame.

the girl still lives in the same city as me. i realized she wasn't worth sheeeiiiiit.

looking back, i can't believe how fuggin stupid i was, trying to get wifed up as a teenager

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Originally Posted by moops View Post
Eh. I'd rather not tell her. The thing is that I am so very acutely aware that we might only have a year before we part ways.

I want to remember her ideally, and I want her to remember me ideally. It's like preserving a memory. If I were to tell her how I felt, our memories of each other would be tainted.
Hi moops there is one thing you must always remember and that is this.
Without communication one gets nowhere. So if you say or communicate nothing then nothing is what one gets and with it remorse/regrets.
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Just ask her out, your already friends with her right? She already likes you, otherwise she wouldn't want to hang out with you. Show her that you truly know her, would move sun and moon for her and secretly hope.
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